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Lenerd Louw - Sexual Mastery for Men and Women
Cape Town and The Garden Route
0027 829019045  lenerdlouw.com
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Lenerd Louw - Sexual Mastery for Men and Women

LISTING > Tantra, Author or Speaker  in Cape Town

Author or Speaker
Lenerd Louw - Sexual Mastery for Men and Women offers Tantra, Author or Speaker, Massage in Cape Town

My inner purpose is to Awake - to bring Joy, Bliss and Presence to my every moment. To do what I love, and to do that in ease, without striving or pushing.

You can only really share from an overflowing cup, not from a cup half full. When I follow my bliss, my cup is overflowing. That’s the only place where I share from. When I share from that place, the bliss flows over - It ignites - Something magical happens.

Offerings for Women:

Are you in the process of stepping into your full sexual power and want to learn how to interact with a man from an empowered place?

Our processes can involve open discussion, Tantra techniques, how to move sexual energy, etc. Sometimes just being able to talk to someone about sexuality can be transformative. If you have read my book JUMP! An epic soul and sex adventure, you know you can discuss anything with me ;)

Can you imagine being with a man and feeling totally safe?

To be fully sexually empowered and live your full sexual expression and potential, you need to be able to fully surrender. To fully surrender you need to feel safe. But what if you have had many encounters with the masculine where you haven’t felt safe?
The fastest way to reset that is to have some experiences and transmissions with the masculine where you feel totally safe. This is what I can provide. Where for example you can hold me, or I can hold you (even both fully clothed) and you can get the experience and transmission that it is totally safe and that one can do this with a man without it having to go anywhere from there. This is a very powerful reset.

Other offerings: Tantric Yoni (vagina) Massage: When the woman request it and I feel that she is ready and that it’s appropriate for her, then I also offer tantric yoni (vagina) massages. This ancient practise will drop you into deep awareness of your body and your sexuality. It allows release of deeply held tensions and facilitates expansion of your sexuality and consciousness. Getting this massage from specifically a man in a safe and sacred environment, can be hugely transformational.

I’m happy to do a free 30 minute zoom/tel call first if you feel there are more questions that you would like to ask before booking. It’s important to feel comfortable, safe and at ease.

Offerings for Men:

Are you curious to expand your sexual knowledge and experience?

Would you like to heal premature ejaculation?

How would it be to feel more energy and aliveness in your body?

Would you like to learn how to make love for hours? - I promise, you can!

Do you wish to feel more confident in your sexuality?

Guidance sessions on men’s sexuality. How to be a great lover. How to be present for a women so that she can fully tap into her orgasmic potential and bliss. How to be present in your own body and drop into your own pleasure. How to 'ravish' a woman with your heart open.
How to become multi orgasmic as a man by distinguishing between orgasm and ejaculation. In other words how to have orgasms without ejaculating. This will allow you to last much longer, make love for hours if you wish, and get her to tap even deeper into her orgasmic potential.

Guidance on the practice of Ejaculation Choice that will enable you to preserve and build the energy in your body that you can then use for any area or purpose in your life. The benefits of this are far wider than sexuality. It will lead to more clarity and direction in your life, deeper heart connection and relationship with your partner and make you a much more present, consciouss, awake, free, powerful man. 

I’m happy to do a free 30 minute zoom/tel call first if you feel there are more questions that you would like to ask before booking.

See my 21-Day Men’s Sexual Mastery Course here: lenerdlouw.co.za/sp/

Offerings for Couples:
All of the above 'women' and 'men' offerings, given in a couple’s environment. Plus guidance on love making. How to drop into your orgasmic potential as a couple. How intimacy, vulnerability, opening your heart space and allowing energy to move through your whole body can lead to heightened experiences of bliss and can raise your consciousness and your daily ongoing enjoyment of life. I’m happy to do a free 30 minute zoom/tel call first if you feel there are more questions that you would like to ask before booking. It’s important to feel comfortable, safe and at ease.

About Lenerd: (Author of JUMP! An epic soul and sex adventure) - get it at: lenerdlouw.com/jump/

In 2013 I resigned as CEO of a funky and modern direct insurance company, moved out of the Clifton beach house, sold and gave away all my possessions and bought a backpack and a one way ticket to Lima in Peru. This started a five year journey of learning and awakening around the world covering five continents and 35 countries.
Each new destination was solely based on where the new learning opportunity was. Many initiations, workshops and trainings across numerous areas followed. Many of these were just beautiful confirmations of what I had been practising on the sexuality front for more than ten years prior. However it deepened and expanded this practice and raised my consciousness, awareness and level of presence to life dramatically.
In 2019 my memoir JUMP! was published by Melinda Ferguson, the leading publisher of memoirs in South Africa. It is available at all major bookstores in Southern Africa and internationally on Amazon.

The Journey continues, with me passionately sharing my learnings from my heart space. (Also see: LenerdLouw.com)

I offer private highly confidential sessions in person and also on Zoom. For bookings WhatsApp me on 0027 829019045 or email me at Lenerd@lenerdlouw.com. I'm also happy to do a free 30 minute zoom/telephone call if need be to clarify my offering and to see if there is a match.

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10 - 20yr
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Two hours (minimum for a yoni/vagina massage) - R2300. One hour (other sessions) - R1200. International Zoom calls - $95 per hour. (Packages of 6 sessions or more highly recommended, at discounted rates)


Doron's picture

Focused, energised and grounded

“Hey Lenerd. Thank you so much for being my guide on the 21 day sexual mastery program. These 21 days have helped me to become more focused, energised and grounded. Your daily videos were very insightful, authentic and entertaining. Much gratitude.” Doron - Cape Town
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Craig - Cape Town

Valuable to all men interested in furthering their sexual awaken

“The 21 day challenge really showed me how to shift sexual energy during love making and self pleasuring to other areas of my body - a fantastic journey to be on. Lenerd gave us his all during the course and his experience in these practices is so valuable to all men interested in furthering their sexual awakenings.” Craig - Cape Town
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Prieur du Plessis

I see unbelievable results

Thanks so much for presenting this course. It was absolutely incredible. Not only did I immediately see unbelievable results in longer love making, but it also affected my general state of mind and understanding core issues that I had. I will most certainly be taking this forward and continue this journey. Also telling all my friends. The support from all the other brothers on the course was also great, and the insight from women you interviewed was super valuable.” Prieur du Plessis - George, Southern Cape Coast
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This 21 day course is a metaphor for life.

“This 21 day course is a metaphor for life. Its essence for me was about energy retention way beyond sex and highlights how shame and addiction to instant physical and emotional gratification drew me away from my inner truth. I realized that my body and heart has the ultimate integrity and should be trusted more than the constructs and conditioning of my mind. I'm looking forward to get back to unraveling and claiming more of my body's secrets to take me back home.” Heine - Cape Town
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Craig Ross

I am so thankful for these 21 days.

“I just completed Lenerd’s 21 day course and I found it to be quite profound. I got more in touch with the fact that I am a man and what “maleness” means. We as a society never really talk about male sexuality and there is this myth that men just want to have sex all the time. In fact, we don’t really talk about our mental health or any other issues that men face and this was a great open forum to do that which was amazing. I began to become aware of energy and how I give it away in a number or ways and not just the obvious way during love making. This awareness has led to changes in how I live and I will continue to change things to retain more energy as I age. I also found beauty and laughter in the world again – it was as if the little boy in me was calling me – I have missed him! Noticing the morning dew on the grass and sunlight and the sound of birds! Beautiful. Not touching my phone first thing in the morning was the key to discovering these delights right in front of me! The morning exercises were tough at first and now they are part of my daily routine. The breath work in particular and moving energy over my body is amazing and I practise this as much as I can. I am so thankful for these 21 days. By taking part in the practise, I got so much more out of it than I thought I would. Hard to believe but by not ejaculating for 21 days I now know that my relationship I have with the world and all those in it, only has to do with myself and nobody else. Tremendously empowering knowledge when you know there is nobody to blame or congratulate other than me! Thank you Lenerd and brothers. Much Love and Respect.” Craig Ross - Cape Town
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Oliver (23) - C...

Cultivating regenerative sexual practice online course

“This course has shown me the power of ejaculation control - I had no idea how much energy I was just expending, instead of being able to put it to better use. My eyes have been opened to a new way of living! For some time I have also been looking for a deeper connection when having sex, not just the superficial westernised way of it, and I was on the right path to it, but this course has helped me understand a lot more in depth, and how to actually go about enabling that deeper connection while making love. Thanks Lenerd!!”
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Masculine Energy

“Lenerd’s enthusiasm and unbridled joy exemplifies what is possible if we understand how to connect consciously with our sexual energy, and learn to exercise that energy within our body rather than expel it. Through his embodiment of the practices, Lenerd creates a lively and supportive container infused with the beauty of masculine energy. This course offers an accessible initiation into the powerful potential of masculinity that is deeply transformative. I leave with a distinct understanding of sexual energy and watch in wonder at the unfolding of a new, empowered way of being. I’m in deep gratitude for Lenerd’s generosity of spirit and wisdom garnered through his wide and wild travels, taking him across cultures, through modalities and into the self. Thank you, brother, you are an inspiration.”
 Juanita's picture

You are a rare find indeed

Dear Lenerd, I would like to thank you for the beautiful treatment. When I first booked a yoni massage I was so uncertain, but the way you put me at ease and created a safe space was unparalleled. Thank you so much for making me feel so comfortable, for guiding me, and for having such patience for the emotional release that followed. You never made me feel silly for crying or being angry, and just confidently guided me through it. I also would like to share that I experienced a very big shift in my circumstances - I decided to have the brave conversations as you suggested, and it’s all moving in a positive direction but more importantly, I feel so much more in touch with myself. I feel clear on the messages from my body and emotions. I really love with how much integrity you do this work. Thank you. You are a rare find indeed.
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Yoni Massage

Thank you Lenerd Receiving a yoni massage from you in a safe and professional environment was transformative for me. I really appreciate that I can be vulnerable in my femininity while being ‘held’ by your masculine presence. I felt safe to be myself. Your experience and professionalism feels rock solid - thank you. And.. I really appreciate your light hearted, sincere approach to living life fully.

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